둘째가 생겼다. 지난 한주간 이런 저런 검사를 계속 해왔는데 마지막으로 한 초음파 검사 결과를 어제 의사를 통해서 확인해보니 임신 6주 6일이라고 한다. 평화가 태어난지 2년 2개월, 결혼한지 10년 9개월 만에 두 번째 아이를 가진 것을 확인했다.

지난 주 초부터 시작된 입덧은 이제 거의 절정에 다달았다. 아내는 첫째 때도 입덧을 굉장히 심하게 해서 회사도 그만 두고 계속 누워서 힘겹게 지내야 했어서 좀 걱정이다. 둘째 때는 좀 나아지기도 한다는 데 지금 보기에는 더 심하면 심했지 덜하지 않다. 그나마 첫째 때는 한국에서 지낼 때라 입덧이 한창일 때는 처갓집에서 지내도록 해서 그나마 다행이었다. 하지만 여기선 최근에 태어난 손자를 보시느라 바쁘신 고모님이 한 분 빼고는 주변에 가족이나 친척도 없다. 결국 모든 책임은 나에게로.

첫째를 가지기 전 임신초에 유산한 경험이 있기 때문에 몹시 주의하고 있다. 노산인데다 입덧도 심하고, 게다가 평화까지 놀아달라고 매달리는 통에 아내가 많이 힘겨워 한다. 그나마 집안 일은 내가 전담을 해서 부담을 덜어 줄 수 있다는 것이 다행일 뿐.

덕분에 아침부터 저녁까지 제법 많은 시간을 밥하고 설거지 하고 청소하고 평화 도시락 싸서 어린이집에 보내고 데려오고 장보는 등의 일에 많은 시간을 쏟아야 한다. 아내가 입덧할 때 그나마 잘 먹는 누룽지를 직접 제조하는 것도 중요한 일이다.

살아오면서 인생에 가장 큰 변화를 준 사건은 결혼이었다. 그리고 두 번째로 큰 변화는 평화의 탄생이었고. 이제 세 번째 변화의 시기가 다가오는 것 같다. 가까이는 1월에 가려고 한 휴가계획부터 전면 재조정(아마 취소 ㅠㅠ)을 해야 하고, 내년에 하려고 했던 많은 일들을 전면 재검토를 해야 할 듯 하다. 아내가 대학원을 졸업하는 1학기가 끝나면, 이어서 나도 다시 공부를 시작하려고 준비하고 있었는데… 지금으로선 가능할지 잘 모르겠다.

일단 안정기로 들어서는 12주까지는 입덧으로 인해서 지난번처럼 몸무게가 많이 빠지지 않고 잘 견디도록 하는데 전념해야 할 것 같다. 뭔가 변화를 눈치채고 살짝 불안해하는 평화랑 더 많이 놀아줘야 하기도 하고. 마무리해야 할 밀린 일은 잠을 줄여서라도 더 빨리 끝내도록 노력해야 겠다. 휴…

앞으로 블로그나 할 시간이 있을까 모르겠다. 나도 만만한 트위터로 옮겨야 하는 건가. 트위터 가지고는 길기로 악명 높은 스프링의 주요 클래스 이름 2-3개 적으면 끝날텐데.

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